Monday, 23 May 2016

Is Suicide an option to consider


Hi,

My self Prasanth. A normal person like you. A normal person who goes through his every day struggle, Happiness, Anger, depression and many many emotions.

Ok My purpose of the blog is many a times i feel sad if any one wants to attempt suicides E.g. Recent case of Pratyasha Benerjee or Any students who fail there exams or incase any one who cant bare there troubles therefore they want to take lives.

I asked one of my friend why these silly people take their lives. He just answered me one single sentence. Just be in there state you would know what they are facing.

As per books i read and what i faced in my life.

I understood is some one taking their life is because they are too much attached to a person or a thing. And they are not willing to let it go. 

And always i have a doubt why animals doesn't attempt suicides. Why are they not living beings? Are they not having feelings? Why are they not humiliated like us? And i think in our human world most difficult life is of animals. E.g. Let us think of a street dog. Does it know when it is going to get food. Does it know will it have a shelter when it rain or hot? Leave all these will it know how to get a Clean drinking water. But still same street dog live more than any of us.

Please dont mistake me i am using a dog but its only to compare to an Animal.
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Let us think the possible reasons of suicides.
1) Love failure
2) Domestic Torture
3) Financial Crisis
4) Loosing of Loved Ones
5) Health Issues

If we can analyse first 4 Situations they are an opportunity to develop our selves and to become stronger.
1) Love Failure - Ok. It is painful either a loved girl or boy left us but it doesnt mean that life has ended. At this is the time some one should look around and rethink about there goals and destinations. Its ok the opposite person is in loss of leaving such a beautiful and honest person like you.

2) Domestic Torture- In this context i would like to take both home and official places. Ok if your husband or boss are torturing you. It doesnt mean your life is ended. Just face them if possible take step of coming out of such company or home. Dont think what others are thinking you are the boss of your life.

3) Financial Crisis- This is a funny thing which always surprises me. Are we  born with money? Are we going to die and take money? Then why are you worried if you lost money or in Credits. Friends Money is only a part of life. Right. Let me give an example. If you are given 10 crores and suddenly except you not even a single human being is there in this world. What would you do with that comfort or Money? Money is only money if there is a opposite human to accept it. other wise it is a waste paper.

4) Loosing some one of Loved ones- Yes this is a painful emotion any one could face. But this attachment what we have for that particular person should make us more wiser and stronger in there absence. Why cant you start a good thing in that persons name Eg feeding poor, Helping animals. Etc

5) Health Issues- I have seen many in news like not able to withstand there pain so they had attempted Suicide. I dont comment on this because if some one is facing such issue should consult doctor and try to take good treatment. And i have understood there are lots therapies available in yoga and Ayurveda which will cure. But definitely Suicide is not the option.

My Dear friends life given by our mother, Father is some thing wonder full thing. Life is so beautiful we should use it for others by detaching our selves from Emotions.

And my Advice is live live live in Present moment and all your difficulties can be taken care.



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